The
Athlete
“How good does a female athlete have to be before we just call
her an athlete?” – Unknown
This quote exemplifies the struggles women have faced in the realm of
sports, especially a sport such as baseball. Deb Bettencourt wanted to
play baseball and make it possible for all girls to play baseball, and
she did. This is her story of how she became involved with baseball.
“In the spring of 1981, one of my friends came home from school
with a flyer for the Pawtucket Slaterettes. It advertised for an all
girls
baseball league at the local park. I begged my parents to sign me up. My friend
and I went to tryouts and I was scared to death. I had never participated
in an organized sport before.”
This was the beginning of Deb’s career as a female baseball
player; or, I should just say, that this was the beginning of
her career as a baseball player with the Slaterettes.
Deb started out in the instructional level of the Slaterettes.
Back then, kids started playing at an older age (Bettencourt
was 10). There was no tee, live pitching, and long games. Each player
got a
chance to play almost any position she wanted.
“I probably have never played in the outfield and I really don’t
know why that is… probably when I played I really had no
fear of the ball and I really didn’t care if I got hit
with a line drive.”
Deb played basketball, ran track, and played slow-pitch
softball in high school because “it was unheard of
to try out for the boys’ baseball
team at that time.” As she put it, “softball
sucked” and
baseball was always what she wanted to do.
“Baseball was what I wanted to do even though I knew then there was nowhere
to go. Then, a ‘League of Their Own’ didn’t
come out, you didn’t know anything about these all-American
people. It was just something to do for fun. We kind of knew
we were weird. I mean we
weren’t doing what most girls were doing. That’s
the cool part of it and I don’t think then I realized just
how cool it was.”
Deb spent very little time in college after high school,
and therefore did not have any interest in playing sports
in college. Given the chance, she does not think she would
have wanted to play softball anyway because at that point you
do not just play for fun anymore.
“I’ll coach competitively, but for me personally
I just want to be able to have fun just like I want other kids
to have fun.”
The way it was timed, at the age of 18, Deb could no longer
play for the Slaterettes and her only options were to either
coach or go play
softball. Again, baseball was what she wanted to do.
In her late teens and early twenties, Deb got more involved
in coaching and organizing because she had a full time job and
little else to do with the rest of her time. Deb decided to occupy
her time with her passion; she was going to be involved with baseball
any way she could.
And what advice does she have for any girl that wants to defy public
misconceptions and play baseball?
“DO IT!!! If you don't want to play in a boys' league, then
start your own! Don't let anyone tell you that you are weird for wanting
to play. There are girls all over the country and the world that are doing it.
Don't miss the opportunity to be part of such a great movement.”
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