Issues That Every Coach Must Face
As with any organized
sport, there are always problems or issues that can arise. Deb
has explained that the players are not the biggest trouble makers;
usually
it is the parents. My favorite quote from Deb is, “They say
there’s a fence on Little League fields created to keep the
parents out. Sometimes that really is the case.”
When handling parents, Deb tells them this is the time to be getting
involved with their kids. The only time she confronts parents about what
they say to their children is if they are interfering
with or contradicting her coaching. Then she just handles it by reminding
parents of what she tries to teach their children. The parents who
get really out of hand she may "banish
to the parking lot," but
in most cases she does not have to be that extreme.
When the kids get out of hand she has many ways to deal with that. The
little kids she just gets them to settle down and does not give in if
they are yelling or fighting. "They all want to be pitcher or first
base, the key is to give them the exact opposite of what they want." The
older ones she has more control over. In some cases she may have them
run laps,
but
she does not
like doing that herself and "would not want to make anyone else
do it.”
The other problem that Deb can not fix is that “the women who would
make really good coaches still want to play.” But these players
are lucky Deb is willing to donate her time and effort to teach them
about her favorite sport: baseball.
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